CODY’S CHRISTMAS FISHING TRIP
Monday, November 30th, 2009A light snow fell as we made our way up the freshly plowed hairpin curves on Berthoud Pass. Cody was excited to be back in the mountains as opposed to the flat lands of Dallas. He had spent the summer playing professional baseball and working out in the fall while attending school in Texas. It was December 22nd and most people were preparing for Christmas. Cody and I were going fishing!
Winter Park was foggy and cold. As usual, McDonald’s was our pit stop. We choked down a couple of “pigs on bricks” and hot coffee and headed down the road to the Colorado River. We started laughing at our expedition as the snow increased in Granby and the thermometer dropped to 19 degrees. We figured we may freeze to death but we were going to go out together. Cody needed a fishing fix and I was going to give it to him, no matter the cost!
Like his brother Craig, Cody had matured into a real man and a very good fisherman. His accomplishments and trials in high school, college and real life had rounded him into a humble, loving person. He had his eyes focused on the Lord and was seeking His will for his life. Seeing this, I was confident that God had a great plan for him. I hoped a successful day of fishing was also part of that plan.
As we drove, the old stories poured out from us as we revisited the past. As I listened to Cody, I started to feel like a dad again. My daughter Amy lived in Michigan with her family. My oldest son Craig was in Louisiana where he played college baseball and was searching to find his life. My wife Lindy and I were now empty nesters, with only our cocker spaniel Maggie. Time goes fast. I began to understand that life is like a vapor. Fishing, like living, is more enjoyable when your loved ones are with you. I wondered if this is the way God felt when I left Him out of my daily life?
Driving down Byers Canyon was slick but manageable. However, the river was iced over in most places. Again, we laughed at the conditions and wondered if our desire to fish was going to be worth the pain. I really wanted to place Cody on the fish but was realizing that it might be a lost cause. I mulled over other places we might go until we arrived at Parshall. There was open water down from the Williams Fork confluence and looked very fishable. The only problem was finding a place to park due to the snow banks created by snow plows. Once we squeezed into a spot, we put our waders on, bundled up and started our half-mile walk to the hole across from the handicap deck.
As we walked, I remembered when Cody was younger and how we butted heads on where and how to fish in a river. He was going to do it his way, no matter what. I was bullheaded and kept on him to fish my way or the highway. The end result was that I caught fish and he didn’t. But that never made me feel good. My pride blocked great teaching opportunities for both of us and kept us from fully enjoying precious times together. I was a fisher of fish, not of men.
When we got the hole, Cody asked me where to fish. A little shocked, I told him to fish the higher part of the hole and I would work on the lower. He then asked me what flies to use. I told him that small is the usual rule for the Colorado and that I thought a red San Juan on a 16 or 18 hook would be good with a size 20 green and black JujuBee trailing. We went to work. It didn’t take long for Cody to hook up with a 13” brown, followed by three more up to 15”. I then connected. In two hours, we had caught about thirty fish apiece up to 20”, when Cody complained about his right foot being cold. We struggled with the decision but headed back to the car to warm up. When we finally arrived at the car, Cody pulled his neoprene waders off along with about a half gallon of water. The fishing had been so good, he never noticed the small tear in his waders that allowed the ice cold water to flood his boot. I told him I admired his dedication and perseverance and started to laugh with him. I stopped laughing when I touched his foot and found it abnormally solid….like frozen solid. We started to worry about frostbite but the car heater warmed it back to normal, which caused us to start laughing again.
On the drive back home, we relived every fish we caught, the amazing fight each one gave us and joked about who out-fished who. When it quieted down, I wondered what God had taught me that day. God had given me a glimpse of a man ready to be used by Him for His purpose. Cody was my youngest child and, had been prepared to leave the nest. It was time. I have to admit that it saddened me but also excited me for Cody’s new adventure with the God of the universe.
Cody was married to Brittany last year, a beautiful, like-minded woman of God in Dallas. She graduated from college and is entering seminary. Cody is working as a personal trainer and is planning to attend seminary as soon as possible. He longs for fishing in Colorado and Wyoming but is confident he and Brittany are where God wants them. Lindy, Maggie and I miss them. My heart yearns for the times that my little boy depended on me to show him where the fish were. I remember the Colorado River trip fondly. I had no idea at the time. God was gracious in the way He had given us such a great shared memory. A couple of hours of fishing that would last a life time.






